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Let me just say this…….. WHAT DID THEY DO THOUGH!?

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Because people love to act like they forgot where they came from the moment God cleans them up. And I don’t know who needs this message, but somebody does.

LET ME EDUCATE YOU!!

What “Judge Not, Lest You Be Judged” REALLY Means

When Jesus said, “Judge not, lest you be judged,” He was talking about condemning people — acting like you know their heart, their motives, or their soul. Acting like you’re better than them. Acting like you get to decide whether they’re worthy.

That’s the kind of judging God hates.

Why?

Because none of us are clean enough to sit on a throne and look down on another human being. None of us know the whole story. None of us have the authority to say someone is “too far gone.”

Only God judges the heart.
You and me? We don’t have that job.

❤️ 2. Correction = Love

Now THIS part people forget:
God does tell us to correct each other — but to do it in love, never in humiliation.

Correction is not tearing somebody down.
Correction is not exposing somebody to embarrass them.
Correction is not talking to them like they’re trash.

Correction is saying:

“Sis, I love you. Bro, I want you to win. And I see something that might hurt you. Let me help you.”

That’s love.
That’s accountability.
That’s what God actually wants.

💥 3. Judgment Hurts. Correction Heals.

Judgment points fingers.
Correction extends a hand.

Judgment says,
“You’re wrong and I want everyone to see it.”

Correction says,
“You’re wrong but let me walk with you so you can get it right.”

See the difference?

Judgment destroys.
Correction restores.

🙏 4. God Looks at the Heart — Not the Performance

When people judge, they judge the outside — the mistakes, the past, the weakness.

But God judges the heart — the desire to grow, the willingness to try, the effort to change.

That’s why Jesus said don’t judge:
because you’re only seeing the outer layer of a person’s life.

🔁 5. The “Lest You Be Judged” Part

Here’s the part people don’t talk about:

God is basically saying,
“If you judge others harshly, I’m going to measure YOU by the same standard you used on them.”

And NONE of us want God measuring us by the same standards we place on other people. We wouldn’t survive it 😭🙌.

So instead of judging… correct with compassion.
Instead of condemning… lift up.
Instead of shaming… guide.

Because the same grace we give is the same grace we will receive.


God tells us not to judge, and you know why? Because when we judge people, we’re looking strictly on the outside of their life. We looking at their clothes, their past, their mistakes, the rumors, the mess… and we refuse to understand something real simple: everybody who has ever walked this earth has problems. Everybody. Nobody is perfect. Nobody is squeaky clean. Nobody has it all together like they pretend.

And let me go deeper…
Right now, people are listening to folks on YouTube who’ve had very questionable paths. I’m talking about stories that would make some church folks clutch their pearls. And guess what? They follow them anyway. Why? Because those people are relatable. Because those people ain’t pretending. Because those people know what it feels like to fall flat on their face and still get back up through the grace of God.

People don’t listen to perfection.
People listen to truth.
People listen to testimony.
People listen to what they can relate to — which is being human.

And listen… that’s why so many folks online are gaining influence. Not because they’re perfect, not because they holier-than-thou, but because they remind people that it’s okay not to be perfect. They remind people that only God saves — not your résumé, not your background, not your image, not your reputation. Just God.

See, the problem with judging folks is that we forget this:
If God waited for perfect people to preach His word, nobody would be preaching. Nobody would be teaching. Nobody would be testifying. There would be no gospel being spread because none of us are spotless.

So when God uses somebody with a messy past?
When God uses somebody who’s been through it?
When God uses somebody who still ain’t got every piece of their life together?

Let that person HAVE IT. 🙏
Let them do what God called them to do.
Because sometimes it takes an imperfect messenger to reach an imperfect listener.

People relate to brokenness because they themselves are broken. People relate to struggle because they themselves are struggling. People relate to testimonies of deliverance because they themselves are praying for deliverance.

And that’s why I say what I say:
If it takes an imperfect person to share the gospel so folks can know they can be saved — then let that person have it.

Stop judging people who God already forgave.
Stop blocking doors God already opened.
Stop criticizing voices God is using to reach the lost.

Because at the end of the day, we’re all human…
But He is the Savior.
And that’s why the gospel works — because it meets people right where they are, not where we think they should be.


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