Can y’all believe how folks say they want God’s blessings but walk around with hate in their hearts? 😳

In this post, Your Girl Renae breaks down why unforgiveness and secret hate block people from the fullness of God — and why it’s time to TAP IN for real.

Let me go ahead and say something real, because a lot of people are not ready to hear this, but they need to. It is crazy — absolutely CRAZY — how people will claim they “hate” someone they do not even truly know. They catch a vibe, hear a rumor, see a moment, or witness a flaw and suddenly they’ve made up a whole story in their head about who that person is. That’s wild to me! And you know what’s even crazier? Those same people will get on their knees every night and say, “Lord, bless me. Lord, help me. Lord, do this and that in my life.” But your heart? Oh, your heart is nowhere near ready for a blessing. And that’s the part people don’t want to accept.

This right here is the reason why so many people have never experienced the fullness of God. Not because God doesn’t want to bless them. Not because God doesn’t hear them. Not because God doesn’t care. But because they refuse to step into alignment with Him. You cannot ask the God of love to bless you while you’re actively choosing to walk in hate. It does not make sense spiritually, emotionally, or biblically. Yet people do it every single day.

People don’t understand how serious this is. When you hold hatred in your heart — especially toward someone who hasn’t even harmed you directly, or someone who may be struggling, or someone who may be living in sin and actually needs prayer — you’re literally living outside the will of God. You’ve stepped out of His covering. You’ve stepped out of His instructions. And then you want to ask Him why your prayers haven’t been answered yet? Baby… look in the mirror.

God said love your brother, love your sister. He did NOT say “love them only when they do what you want,” or “love them only when they’re perfect,” or “love them only when you feel like it.” He said love, period. Correct in love, guide in love, speak life in love. There is no verse that says, “Go ahead and hate that person because they get on your nerves.” That’s flesh talking, not the Spirit.

And the part that really gets me? The same people who carry hate in their heart are the same ones screaming, “God knows my heart.” Yes, He does. That is exactly the problem. He knows what’s really sitting inside you while you pretend everything is fine. You might fool people, but you are not fooling God.

It’s time for people to TAP IN — for real. Tap into the Spirit. Tap into self-reflection. Tap into humility. Tap into the truth, even if the truth stings a little. Because at the end of the day, God cannot pour into a heart that is full of bitterness. He cannot bless a vessel that refuses to be cleaned out. And He will not give more to someone who can’t even handle the command He already gave: Love one another.

Before you ask God to bless you, ask Him to fix your heart. Ask Him to remove that hate, that pettiness, that judgment, that jealousy, that bitterness. Ask Him to teach you how to love even the people who make it difficult. That’s how you grow. That’s how you tap into the fullness of God. That’s how the blessings open up.

You cannot hold hate in one hand and blessings in the other. It doesn’t work like that. Choose love. Choose alignment. Choose God — for real this time.

Because the moment you let go of that hate? Oh, the blessings that will pour… you won’t even be able to contain them.